You’ve got the crew together. You’ve got the matching shirts. Now you need a plan. Here’s exactly how to spend 3 days in New Orleans for a bachelorette party that’ll be talked about for years.
Day One: Arrival & Pool Party
2:00 PM - Check In & Settle
Most vacation rentals have 3-4pm check-in times. Use this to your advantage: arrive, claim your beds, pop the first bottles of champagne, and get into those matching swimsuits.
Pro tip: Have someone arrive early to stock the fridge. Nothing kills the vibe like a grocery run when everyone’s ready to party.
4:00 PM - Pool Time
This is why you booked a private villa. No crowded hotel pools, no noise complaints, just your crew, good music, and all the rosé you brought.
Set the scene:
- Create a playlist in advance
- Bring pool floats (flamingos are classic but consider personalized ones)
- Stock a cooler poolside
- Set up a photo station with props
7:00 PM - Freshen Up
Give everyone time to shower, do hair/makeup, and get ready for the night. With big groups, you’ll need at least 2 hours.
9:00 PM - Dinner at Cochon
For your first NOLA meal, go Southern. Cochon does Louisiana cuisine at its finest—boucherie platters, fried alligator, and cocktails that’ll put you in the right mood.
Reservations essential. Book at least 2 weeks ahead for groups of 10+.
11:00 PM - Night One: The French Quarter
Start easy on night one. Walk around the Quarter, grab a Hand Grenade, peek into Pat O’Brien’s for a Hurricane. Save the big night for tomorrow.
End early-ish (1-2am). You’ve got a big day ahead.
Day Two: The Main Event
10:00 AM - Brunch at The Ruby Slipper
No bachelorette in NOLA is complete without brunch. The Ruby Slipper serves eggs Cochon de Lait and bottomless mimosas. Expect a wait on weekends—put your name in, then grab beignets next door.
Alternative for big groups: Cafe Amelie has a gorgeous courtyard and takes reservations.
1:00 PM - Activity Time
Pick something the bride will love:
For the Active Bride:
- Pole dancing or burlesque class at Bella Blue
- Paddle board yoga on Bayou St. John
- Dance class (second line, salsa, or jazz)
For the Relaxed Bride:
- Spa day at Spa Aria
- Private tarot reading in the Quarter
- Painting class with wine
For the Adventurous Bride:
- Swamp tour (yes, really—it’s amazing)
- Cemetery and ghost tour
- Cooking class at New Orleans School of Cooking
5:00 PM - Return to Villa
Pool time round two. This is when everyone does final hair and makeup for the big night. Play music, take photos, have fun with it.
8:00 PM - Dinner at Commander’s Palace
This is the New Orleans restaurant. Jacket suggested (for the groom’s friends), but the real draw is the 25-cent martinis at lunch. For dinner, it’s white tablecloths, impeccable service, and food that lives up to the hype.
Book the Garden Room for groups.
10:30 PM - Frenchmen Street
Skip Bourbon (okay, walk through once) and head to Frenchmen Street. This is where locals go. Live jazz and brass bands spill out of every door. Our picks:
- The Spotted Cat - Standing room only, incredible jazz
- d.b.a. - Great live music, more space
- The Maison - Three floors, multiple bands
- Bamboula’s - Late night dance party
2:00 AM - Late Night Eats
You’ll be hungry. Options:
- Verti Marte (French Quarter) - The “All That Jazz” po’boy is legendary
- Dat Dog - Gourmet hot dogs, open late
- Clover Grill - 24-hour diner, perfect drunk food
Day Three: Recovery & Goodbye
10:00 AM - Beignets at Café Du Monde
It’s cliché because it’s perfect. Get there early-ish to beat the worst of the line. Order beignets and café au lait. Get powdered sugar everywhere. Take the obligatory photos.
11:30 AM - Final French Quarter Stroll
Walk off the beignets. Stop at:
- Jackson Square for photos
- Pirate’s Alley for that iconic shot
- Any antique shop that catches your eye
- A final cocktail at The Carousel Bar
1:00 PM - Check Out
Say your goodbyes, exchange hugs, promise to do it again for someone else’s wedding.
Bach Party Planning Checklist
Use this to stay organized:
3 Months Before:
- Set the date (avoid major events unless intentional)
- Book accommodations for the whole group
- Create group chat and collect deposits
1 Month Before:
- Make dinner reservations
- Book any activities/classes
- Order matching shirts/accessories
- Assign someone to make playlists
1 Week Before:
- Confirm all reservations
- Create packing list for group
- Assign grocery/supply shopping
- Share itinerary with everyone
Day Before:
- Stock the house with groceries
- Set up decorations if any
- Charge all phones/cameras
Budget Breakdown
Here’s what to expect per person for a 3-day weekend:
| Item | Estimated Cost |
|---|---|
| Accommodations (split) | $150-250 |
| Meals (all 3 days) | $200-300 |
| Drinks & nightlife | $100-200 |
| Activities | $50-100 |
| Transportation/Uber | $30-50 |
| Total | $530-900 |
This varies based on your group size, where you stay, and how hard you go.
When to Go
Best months: March-May, October-November
The weather is perfect, the city is alive, and you’ll avoid the brutal summer humidity.
Consider:
- Mardi Gras season (Feb/March) - Amazing energy but expensive and crowded
- Jazz Fest (late April/early May) - Music lovers’ paradise
- Summer (June-August) - Hot and humid, but cheaper rates
Avoid:
- Hurricane season peaks (August-September)
- Major convention weeks (check the calendar)
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